Who says the following and why? "I tell you this—bear it in mind, you must— when you reach your homeland steer your ship into port in secret, never out in the open . . . the time for trusting women's gone forever!" * Elpenor is warning Odysseus to use caution when he returns to Aeaea. Agamemnon is warning Odysseus from experience. Anticleia is warning Odysseus about the suitors. Tiresias is warning Odysseus to use caution coming home.